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Entry type
Hexagram
Number
6
Chinese name
Pinyin
Song
Upper trigram
Qian (Heaven)
Lower trigram
Kan (Water)
Nuclear hexagram
Hexagram 37, The Family
Inverse hexagram
Hexagram 5, Waiting
Opposite hexagram
Hexagram 36, Darkening of the Light

Hexagram 6: Conflict

Water going down while heaven goes up: two things moving apart. Conflict says that stopping halfway is fortunate and pressing to the end is not, and its Image recommends settling the terms before you begin.

Keywords
  • conflict
  • dispute
  • arbitration
  • withdrawal
  • terms

Position in the King Wen sequence

Sixth in the King Wen order. The Sequence places it after Waiting, with a blunt piece of reasoning: where there is food and drink there will be quarrels over them, so contention follows directly on provision.

The Judgement

The Judgement is one of the least ambiguous in the book. There is sincerity here and it is blocked. Caution partway through brings good fortune; carrying the matter to its conclusion brings misfortune. It helps to see the great man. It does not help to cross the great water.

Two of those clauses are worth dwelling on. The book's phrase for a major undertaking, crossing the great water, appears here negated, and it appears affirmed in Hexagram 5, which is this figure turned over. The pair are explicit: wait and you may undertake the large thing; fight and you may not. And seeing the great man means finding an authority who can rule on the matter, not winning by force. The hexagram's whole recommendation is arbitration.

The Image

The Image says heaven and water move in opposite directions, and that the noble person accordingly plans the beginning of any undertaking.

The natural picture is precise. Heaven turns westward and water runs downward; nothing is wrong with either and they will never travel together. Conflict here is structural rather than moral, which is why the recommended conduct is not conciliation or firmness but preparation. Settle the terms at the start. Write down who does what, what happens if it fails, and who decides. The Image's answer to conflict is administrative and it has to be applied before the conflict exists, which is the difficulty with it.

What the hexagram describes

Conflict is water below and heaven above, which is Waiting turned upside down. Danger underneath, unyielding strength on top. The trigrams also move apart: heaven rises, water sinks, and the figure describes a disagreement that is built into the arrangement rather than caused by anyone's bad behaviour.

The line texts are remarkably consistent and remarkably unheroic. Two separate lines say the same thing, that the person cannot win the case, and both of them end well because the person withdraws. The first line says do not draw the matter out and the end is good. The only line that contends successfully is the fifth, and the fifth is the judge's seat. Read the hexagram straight and it says: you are probably not going to win this, and the good outcomes belong to the people who stop.

What changes the reading is which side of it you are on. Asked by someone considering a dispute, this is a discouragement with one exception, and the exception is to find an authority who can decide it. Asked by someone already in a dispute, the useful question is which line they are: the one who can stop, or the one at the top who has been given a belt and has it taken away three times before lunch. The hexagram describes a posture, not an outcome, and it is unusually blunt about which postures cost.

In a relationship question

In a relationship question this describes an argument that has a structure behind it. Not a bad mood but a genuine divergence: two people wanting things that do not fit together, with the disagreement recurring because the arrangement produces it.

The Judgement's advice is the useful part. Stop partway. Do not take it to the end. The two lines about being unequal to the contention are not describing weakness; they describe someone who works out that winning this particular argument is not available and withdraws before the cost rises. The hexagram gives no view on who is right, and that is deliberate: it is a figure about the shape of the disagreement, not about its merits. The nuclear hexagram inside it is The Family, which is worth sitting with.

In a work question

At work this is the figure for a dispute: a grievance, a contract argument, a disagreement with a manager. The Image's advice arrives too late for most people who draw it, which is to settle the terms at the outset.

What is left is the Judgement, and it is specific: find someone who can rule on it. That is the great man clause, and in a modern workplace it means escalating to a person with actual authority rather than continuing to argue with a peer. The second line is the alternative and it is not shameful: withdraw, keep your head down, and note that the text says three hundred households escape the consequences. Stopping a fight you cannot win protects other people as well as you.

In a money question

In a money question this points at a dispute over money rather than at an amount: a debt, a bill, a division of something. The Judgement's line about not crossing the great water is the relevant one, and it means this is not the moment for the large commitment.

The hexagram's own recommendation is to get it decided by someone with standing rather than to keep contesting it. In practice that means a formal process, and the text is clear that pressing to the bitter end is the bad outcome. That is a comment on the shape of contested situations, not advice about yours. Anything with money and a legal dimension needs a qualified person, and this page is not one.

As advice

Stop before the end. That is the Judgement's instruction and it is the opposite of what a dispute makes you want to do. Work out what the realistic best outcome is, subtract what it will cost in time, attention and relationships to get there, and if the number is negative, withdraw now rather than at the point where you have run out of energy. If it is genuinely worth pursuing, take it to someone who can decide rather than continuing to argue.

First line, changing

Do not draw the matter out. There is some talk, and the end is good. Yin in a yang place, not correct, at the bottom: a weak line at the start of a conflict, which is the best possible time to leave one. The cost of stopping here is gossip and nothing else. Changing it gives Hexagram 10, Treading, which is walking carefully past something dangerous rather than confronting it, and that is the same manoeuvre described from the other side.

Second line, changing

Not equal to the contention. He turns back and hides; the three hundred households of his town escape harm. Yang in a yin place, so not correct, but central in the lower trigram. It faces the fifth line, which holds the judge's seat, and the text is realistic about what that means: you are arguing with someone who outranks you. The retreat is not cowardice in the text's terms, because it is the thing that protects everyone downstream. Changing it produces Hexagram 12, Standstill.

Third line, changing

Living on what was given long ago. Holding firm; danger; it ends well. If you take up the king's business, claim no success. Yin in a yang place, not correct, at the top of the lower trigram and the most exposed spot in the figure. The line's answer is to live on existing provision rather than to contest for more, and to take no credit if drawn into someone else's fight. Changing it gives Hexagram 44, Coming to Meet.

Fourth line, changing

Not equal to the contention. He turns back, accepts the ruling, changes his mind, and rests in what is correct. Good fortune. Yang in a yin place, not correct, at the bottom of the upper trigram. This is the second line in the hexagram to say the case cannot be won, and the difference here is that the change is internal: not just withdrawal but an actual change of mind. The text treats that as the better outcome. Changing it gives Hexagram 59, Dispersion, where what was rigid breaks up and disperses.

Fifth line, changing

Contending. Great good fortune. Yang in a yang place and central in the upper trigram: the only line in this hexagram that is both correct and central, and the only one that wins. That is not a coincidence and it is the structural point of the whole figure. Conflict succeeds here because this line is the judge rather than a party. Everyone else in the hexagram is misplaced. Changing it gives Hexagram 64, Before Completion, where every line is out of position.

Sixth line, changing

Perhaps he is given a leather belt of office. Before the morning is out it is taken from him three times. Yang in a yin place, not correct, past the top: someone who took the contention all the way and won something. The text does not dispute the win. It says the award will not stay awarded. This is the Judgement's warning about the bitter end, made concrete, and it is one of the sharpest lines in the book about the difference between winning and keeping. Changing it gives Hexagram 47, Oppression.

How the two trigrams read together

The lower trigram is Kan, Water; the upper is Qian, Heaven. It is Hexagram 5 with the trigrams swapped, and the swap is the whole difference: there the strength was underneath and the danger above, here the danger is underneath and the strength sits on top of it.

There is a second structural fact that most treatments miss. Only one of the six lines is correct by position, and it is the fifth, the judge. Every other line in a hexagram about disputes is in the wrong place. That is not decoration; it is the figure's argument. In a conflict almost nobody is standing where they should be, and the one position that is properly occupied is the one that decides rather than contends.

The nuclear hexagram, from lines two to four and three to five, is Hexagram 37, The Family. That is the reading the surface hides. Inside a figure about litigation is a figure about a household and its defined roles. The implication is uncomfortable and accurate: most serious conflict is between people who are bound to each other, and it is about position within that bond. Strangers do not usually bother. The opposite, every line reversed, is Hexagram 36, Darkening of the Light.

Where this text came from

The oldest layer here is legal. Song means to dispute or to litigate, and the line texts describe recognisable Zhou-era procedure: a case that cannot be won, a man withdrawing to his town, a grant of office and its withdrawal. The three hundred households in the second line is a specific administrative unit, which is the sort of detail that marks genuinely early material.

The Ten Wings supplied the Image and its reading of the two trigrams as moving in opposite directions. The advice about planning the beginning of an undertaking is theirs, and it converts a hexagram about lawsuits into one about contract drafting, which is a considerable interpretive move and a useful one. The Xu Gua explains the position by noting that where there is nourishment there will be disputes about it, so Conflict follows Waiting.

The Song commentators, writing for an administrative class that spent its life on exactly these questions, treated the hexagram as practical guidance on when to press a case. James Legge's 1882 English retains the legal vocabulary throughout, which makes it the more useful translation for this particular figure. Richard Wilhelm's 1924 German, reaching English through Cary Baynes in 1950, broadened it toward inner conflict, and that broadening is why many modern English treatments read this hexagram as being about tension in general rather than about a dispute with a specific other party.

The common misreading

The most common misreading is taking the fifth line as yours. It is the one good outcome in the hexagram and it is the one people want. But that line is the judge, not a party to the case, and every other line is either told it cannot win or shown losing what it won. A querent in a dispute is almost never the fifth line, and reading it as though they were is how this hexagram gets used to encourage a fight it is warning against.

The second is treating withdrawal as the hexagram calling you weak. Two lines say the person is unequal to the contention and both end well. The text is not judging character; it is assessing a specific case against a specific opponent. Being unable to win against someone with more authority is a fact about the arrangement, and the figure treats recognising it as competence.

The third is reading it as an instruction to avoid conflict generally. That is not what it says. It says stop partway, and it says find an authority who can rule. Both of those are ways of engaging, not of avoiding. A reading that turns this hexagram into keep the peace has removed the one piece of practical advice it contains, which is to escalate to someone with standing instead of continuing to argue with an equal.

Questions to sit with

  • What is the best realistic outcome here, and what will getting it cost you?
  • Are you arguing with someone who can actually decide this?
  • Was this disagreement built into the arrangement from the start?
  • If you won, would the win hold?
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